I was talking with a friend about love. She thinks love is a choice and in a marriage you choose to love your spouse.
I think love is an emotion. A wonderful feeling and connection that you experience towards another person. Marriage and that commitment is the choice.
I think that people can do things to keep their spouses engaged. To keep eachother in love with eachother on a daily basis. That only works if both parties are willing to give themselves to eachother and put effort into their relationship. A happy marriage or commitment can't be one sided.
You dont choose love. It finds you, sometimes when you weren't looking for it. You can look over one day and see a person differently. It's not something you choose. It just happens. Now what you decide to do with that feeling is on you.
"You can change what you do but you can't change what you want."
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